The Long and Winding Road

In October 2009 I took a Cialis to counteract the ill effects of taking antidepressants that I needed after having gotten my diabetes "under better control." I woke the following morning to see a vitreous hemorrhage gushing blood in my only good eye.
Blood filled the center of the eye and an existing cataract. I got scared into PRP surgery, with sessions before and after the cataract procedure. As neither doctor involved bothered to tell me that both PRP laser and cataract surgery increase risks of diabetic retinapathy, I was foolishly surprised when retinapathy developed while I was still undergoing the PRP
I was also not told of lense options for the cataract. I did not understand why I had NO reading vision while old men I knew had no problem reading with their new cataract lenses.
By summer of 2010 I was finding my new groove in life. I could not do some things at all, could do others with increased effort and caution, and could almost carry on with other things like my old self.
The more familiar I had been with what I was doing before going blind, the better I could handle it blind .
This blog is one guy’s personal and subjective experience, but it contains important take aways for general readers, particularly diabetics and eye patients. I have been accused of being a caustic cynic long before I ever started blogging.
By law of averages alone, I can’t be as dumb as I look. One important objective of this bit of cyberspace is to throw out ideas and experiences that should be given some thought by patients.
These warnings include:
Ask every question of your doctors, because they may not tell you.
Do your own thorough research on any procedure before undergoing it. Be sure to include the term "risk factor" or "side effect" in your search terms.
Diabetic light sensitivity may be caused by the routine dilation treatments during exams.
You have a right to your medical records and you should be familiar with them.
When you find a good doctor who is knowledgeable about his field and honest to you when he just doesn’t know, hold on to him. No one knows it all and the arrogant doctor who pretends to know everything can do you more harm than someone who recognizes and admits his limitations.
Treat people who developed physical handicaps late in life as you did before, and like they were whole people. Blindness and amputations are not catchy. Humor is what we gimps usually need most.
Appreciate those around you!